Guide to sex and dating
Equal parts Alfred Kinsey and Warren Beatty, Charlie is pompous yet charming, supportive yet unfaithful; he's a firm believer that sex and love can't coexist for long, and he does little to hide his affairs.
Claire's life with Charlie is an always interesting if not deeply devoted one, until Charlie is struck dead one day on the sidewalk by a falling sculpture ... Once a promising young writer, Claire had buried her ambitions to make room for Charlie's. Over the course of a year, she sees a shrink (or two), visits an oracle, hires a "botanomanist," enjoys an erotic interlude (or ten), eats too little, drinks too much, dates a hockey player, dates a billionaire, dates an actor (not any actor either, but the handsome movie star every woman in the world fantasizes about dating).
I think the key is to be your authentic self and to have confidence in that.
And listen, we all don't act completely like ourselves on the first date, because then none of us would get a second date.
I usually wait like a shark to figure out which guy will hold my interest for more than two dates. I was so young before I got married—you really begin to learn what you like and don't like.
You have to listen to your own head when you're dating.
She has written for many magazines, including Marie Claire, Harper's Bazaar, and Glamour.
Not only is he more than meets the eye, but he's got his eye on her.She suggested that I keep a journal, and I thought it would make a funny book. What was the hardest part of getting back out there?Losing my widow virginity—I sound like an 18-year-old! For our February issue, I spoke with her about the inspiration behind the book, how to find the right guy, and losing her widow virginity. It came out of a conversation I was having with a girlfriend of mine, Christiane [Amanpour].I was sharing some dating stories and laughing about how painful but curious it was to date again after being with my husband for ten years.