How to not be exclusive in dating
Here are 15 essential tips to follow: Psychotic optimism is my philosophy on love, which I’m spreading to everyone who will listen.It means this: “Love will come to me — it’s a WHEN, not an IF.Sex can be great but, had too early, can cause the demise of a relationship as we are caught in a fog of oxytocin, estrogen, testosterone and dopamine.
Have a good vetting process and keep the pipeline filled.
Within two months, you’ve had “the discussion” and have defined an exclusive relationship! There will be ups and downs, weeks where you have many dates, and weeks where you have none.
X Spira says once you start getting into a habit of setting up dates with one or more people, it can get easy to fall into the trap of playing the field.“If someone continues to play the field, and doesn’t take a digital leap of faith with one person, they may end up on a merry-go-round and end up in a series of one-and-done dates, or dates that don’t go past a few weeks,” she says.
Texting is OK as a “heads-up” method of communication, like, “I’m running five minutes late.” But it shouldn’t take the place of all communication, and texting too much can lead to premature intimacy.
If you feel that someone texts you too much, suggest that you chat by phone instead!